Hey guys,you all have direct access to the internet and know what you can do their!In my case I looked for information about other couples who are 16 and have a baby...I thought that my life is really messed up,but the things I read there were very sad and horrible!No money,no work the parents chuck them out and say "Live your own life,with your new family"!Another scary fact was that eighty per cent of teenage fathers lose touch with their kids!!OMG,how could that be ??Maybe there are boys, who do not want to admit to their babys... but the rest!?I read an other article about the child custody and in the majority of cases the mothers get the baby!So if I want to stay in touch with Roof,I must be nice to Alicia(??).You see I am worried about this issue... and because of that I went to Alicia to talk with her about Roof.(In the last 2 month their was anyway no other thing to talk about)The mother of my son was very agressiv and bearish and I felt that this conversation would not have a good ending for me (:D)!!After Alicia came out of the bathroom ,she imputed me sleeping with an other girl.Besides she shouted at me that I could forget Roof and will automatically lose touch with my son. I did not give her any hint to think about such a shit and now I will lose Roof because of my crazy ex-girlfriend?!Why should I do this?(I promised myself that I would not sleep with someone else in the next time)However, Andrea came up,because Alicia screamed like a pig at the shambles(:D)and tried to hush her.20minutes later Alicia,Andrea and I sat in the kitchen...but I always thought about 2 things: Firstof all that I maybe will lose my son and secondly what a strange and scary girlfriend I have got.There were times I fancied her and I knew that the pregnancy really changed her but such a beast is definitely scary!These moments also showed me that it was the best to go home and keep distance from her!Back to the main point..Andrea explained us that being parents is more than change the nappys or feeding!"When Roof gets older their will be many moments where you want to run away or die or disappear....but you have to stay present for your child and give good advices....You both cannot give your child worldly wisdoms because you have no time for "Learn to live" and "Live to learn"!!!However you have Robert and me and of course Sam's mom and so it will work my dears",said Andrea!!You know that I don't really like Andrea but this convesation helped me to understand how "real" parents should be !!
Sammy :)
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I'm glad to have parents, who support us with money, home, food and so on...
ReplyDeleteThe stories are horrible. I don't want to think about it.
Sam, you shouldn't be nice to me only for seeing Roof. :( I like you and it is really sad and headstrong, that you always think about yourself and don't look after your fellow men.
Do you remember when we met each other?
- You said your opinion to me. Whereon I try to change myself. So please spend only one minute tp think about your child and my feelings.